Hmph! I thought yesterday was bad with the amount of docs! We were finally moved to the rehab floor and there were at least 45-50 people (docs, therapists, etc) that came in to see him just today. I can't even begin to tell you how tired I am, so I can only imagine what Kevin is feeling. I have to say that it better not be like that tomorrow or I am going to have to say something. It's just too much!
But I am glad we are finally where we need to be! Kevin needs a shower and he also needs to sit up in a chair. We also need to get these burns taken care of.
And to be honest - we need to get a set schedule going. I put in another 16 hours at the hospital today and I can't continue at this rate. And I am smart enough to know it. I know that tomorrow will be another long day, but maybe the next day I can let Breezy do a little more than I have been. I just knew all the docs needed to discuss his 'issues' and figured I should be there.
So on this note - I am going to bed. I have to be there at 8:30 and it's now after 1:00 am. Unfortunately, Kevin never filed to appoint me POA (power of attorney) so I have a court hearing via phone scheduled first thing in the morning for me to get guardianship. I can't pay his bills or make any decisions without it. Thank goodness it's not a video conference, lol. I am looking pretty haggard lately...
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*HUGS* Les - it won't stay this busy forever, just keep your chin up! Maybe tomorrow you can insist on a "naptime" for the both of you. ;) Rest is important for healing boys (and for the busy mothers of healing boys too!) You're doing such an amazing job of taking care of him, but you gotta take care of yourself a LITTLE. Love you, Les!
I'm sorry things aren't going that great, but I'm confident they'll get better. I hope that you take some time out to take care of yourself - relax - find something fun to do t make yourself laugh - or go shopping for something nice for yourself! Love you sister, hope you get settled in soon!
Leslie,
Sometimes it's easier to take care of the world and never learn how to take care of yourself. Kevin is getting the best of you..that's why he is doing so well. A Mother, a good Mother, has that built-in caregiver gene. You won't give up until everything is fixed. So understandable.
I was very happy to read Donna O'Hanlon's post. Kevin going to church made me realize that he wants God and he needs God in his life or he wouldn't have been there. Please PRAY everyone and know that this is what Kevin would want in addition to the many great and wonderful positive thoughts sent.
Prayer does work. Thank you, Donna, for letting us know this. I must say this was one of the posts that really touched my heart. I can just picture Kevin in my mind sitting in that church and you and Jamey asking him to join you. : )
Your days are filled to the max...I agree. If Mama gets sick...what are we going to do ??? I wonder if the doctors realize the IMPORTANT role you play in Kevin's recovery. You are the supporting actor in this documentary and one that is needed to see the star of the show...win.
Hope the power of attorney situation gets fixed fast. Wow..as if you need all of this stuff going on too. : (
STAY STRONG, Leslie and PLEASE try to go to bed early tonight. I'm afraid if you attempted to take a "nap" today, you'd never get back up !!! Just remember how much we care. : )
Leslie,
Take care of yourself;things will
begin to calm down once the two hospitals and staffs get all the info together and are all on the same page as far as all of Kevin's medical needs are concerned.I really do have faith that Kevins healing will continue at amazing pace once the nurses,doctors,and therapists in Tampa get his burn issue etc all figured out.
We are all so proud of the strength that the three of you have shown and continue to show each and everyday.I wish I could do something more for you guys but I realize like everyone else that the best we can do right now is keep you all in our thoughts and prayers (which you are everyday).
Les,
Sounds like a massage is in order. Treat yourself as soon as you can. I treated myself to one and was amazed at how much better I felt. It's just nice for someone to take care of you for a change if even for an hour.
Please get some rest! You will be no good if you are wore out and just making the trip there has to be tiring for you.
Take care
Susan
Leslie, if you need anything let me know. I have Power of Attorneys at work, can Notarize for you, can overnight back and forth, whatever you need honey!!! You just let me know. Here's my cell if you don't have it, if you need anything, anything at all.
724-525-2899. Can't believe how strong you all are, take care of yourselves!!! Sharon, Zach & Haleigh
You knowing that you can't continue at this rate is a very good thing... You do need to take a break, and try not to feel guilty about it! You and Breezy are 2 of THE strongest women I know. You are amazing. But you're also human (I think! You seem more superhuman!) and you need rest.
Saying loads of extra prayers that things start to go much more smoothly for you all, that Kevin gets all of the care he needs and a nice shower, that you and Breezy can catch a few guiltless Zs. Someone mentioned a massage in the comments - you should take that advice!!!
God bless you Leslie, Breezy & Kevin. We're all out here praying for you and praying with you, every step of the way. Stay strong woman warriors, stay strong brave hero. Giant hugs are coming your way right now!
- Kris, a Soldiers' Angel from RI
Wipe the sweat and drive on! Don't forget you're a Herd Lady. Airborne!
I hope all went well with your court hearing. I'm a medical student and I know what a long hard process that can be. I really hope its not that way for you. You've been through enough! Wishing the best for all of you and so glad you are finally where you need to be!
Steph
Erie, PA
Leslie-
Still thinking of all of you!
Megan
I hope today went a little more smoothly and that you were able to rest up. I'm thinking of you all and praying for you!
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