tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post3522779429626005648..comments2023-11-02T11:00:31.919-05:00Comments on Mended Wings: Day 341 - May 7, 2009Lesliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04099407836145699943noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-23130985166070297572009-05-09T09:40:00.000-05:002009-05-09T09:40:00.000-05:00You don't sound depressed to me, you sound human.You don't sound depressed to me, you sound human.Lisa Damroschhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14043730191134178560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-17893911257564036312009-05-08T21:17:00.000-05:002009-05-08T21:17:00.000-05:00When do you guys get to go home to Florida? Such s...When do you guys get to go home to Florida? Such small cramped, dark conditions is not healthy for your mind, emotions or your body.<br /><br />I am so happy to read so many people supporting you. Know all of you are in many of our prayers.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-71285698451954937372009-05-08T21:14:00.000-05:002009-05-08T21:14:00.000-05:00I'll throw in my two cents here.
I think your read...I'll throw in my two cents here.<br />I think your readers care a bunch about your family, which is probably an obvious statement. Folks offer advice from the heart in response, and that's a part of blogging which is inevitable. Maybe I'm speaking out of turn here, but we all wish we could help in some way. However, there must be times when nothing seems a comfort or help to you. You've done an incredible job over these past months. <br /><br />One thing that always comes through is your strength and perseverance. Of course there will be a roller coaster of emotions. What you've experienced for almost a year now is a world turned upside down and inside out. Keep venting and as trite as it may sound, hang tough. <br /><br />Big (((Hug))) and prayers.Long-time RNhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00301386934882781722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-29490285990785289162009-05-08T14:07:00.000-05:002009-05-08T14:07:00.000-05:00Three points.
ONE: You aren't depressed. But that...Three points.<br /><br />ONE: You aren't depressed. But that doesn't mean you couldn't benefit from some of the services for the depressed. I'm not talking about the meds, but perhaps your own counselor for your own feelings. Or a support group. Of course, you have no money or time for either, I'm sure. I guess this blog and it's community of readers are your counselors and support group.<br /><br />Don't worry when you get responses of unwelcome advice (like this comment.) People who care often tell others what to do. When all you're doing is getting your feelings off your chest. And you don't need any advice at all.<br /><br />TWO: I'm getting PT from a former VA employee. He says the VA system in the NW is a mess from the top down. His frustration with how poorly the NW region is run makes me wonder about the entire system.<br /><br />So, you're fighting many battles on many fronts and doing marvelously well. <br /><br />THREE: I've taken ASL classes. It was really really fun and far more expressive (even to the beginner) than any spoken language. (I've studied three.)<br /><br />However, I have a high IQ and have always been an A student but I pretty much SUCKED at learning ASL. I could learn the motions and symbols but I just couldn't read them! And I think that's because it was using a visual part of my brain where I wasn't so smart. And that might be just the spot where Kevin has abilities that can grow. It can't hurt, I would think. You can always drop it if you don't like it. (More unwelcome advice). <br /><br />Hang in there. You're amazing. And so is Kevin.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-79162225018698219572009-05-08T10:14:00.000-05:002009-05-08T10:14:00.000-05:00Learning ASL might help you guys communicate bette...Learning ASL might help you guys communicate better - and there is ALWAYS a need for people to translate for the deaf, so you could even do yourself a favor and learn/study and then perhaps put it to use somehow in the future...just a thought.<br /><br />I know I haven't commented in awhile but that's because I started a new job that's tiring, but I'm always reading and thinking of you guys. Hope things continue to improve as we near a year since all this started.Alisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11104751282183721290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-51059242696127831412009-05-08T08:40:00.000-05:002009-05-08T08:40:00.000-05:00Leslie, YOU ROCK. God bless you. And as always, ...Leslie, YOU ROCK. God bless you. And as always, sending thoughts, prayers, support and loads of extra special Angel Hugs your way. <br /><br />- Kris, a Soldiers' Angel from RIKrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09095562211546078329noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-46811037425891776932009-05-08T08:02:00.000-05:002009-05-08T08:02:00.000-05:00I think you are doing remarkably well. And I do n...I think you are doing remarkably well. And I do not believe you are depressed. We ALL have days where we bury our heads and sink into a day of, life stinks, and what ifs! A day of two of self pity, I believe is good for the soul. I, myself, endulge on those occassionally! It's the individuals that are unable to shake it off, and hey Ive been there too, after a day or so that may need to look elsewhere for some outside help. Everything you are feeling and Kevin is feeling is completely normal. Kevin, more than likely is having the anxiety that comes with having his routine changed. And that also is normal. <br />Change is inevitable but that doesn't mean we always face it gracefully! <br /><br />I do believe however, these posts will someday, somehow, be read by some great publisher who will be able to collect all your thoughts and fears and conquests and organize them into a beautiful, educational peace of work that can and will educate others. My oldest son is graduating next month, and has been interviewing with recruiters. But for him to make a completely informed choice on his future, I've felt it's vital for him to be reading these posts. This is not to say I'm advocating to not serve or to serve, but to make certain he has enough information on any and all outcomes of his choice for his future. :) <br /><br />I appreciate the posts of your joy as much as the posts of realism where you share your deepest and most difficult times. It takes a brave soul to be able to let us all in.<br /><br />BTW HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!humminbirdiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04281889649120157558noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-54362473134188216512009-05-08T08:01:00.000-05:002009-05-08T08:01:00.000-05:00Leslie, Did you try and get disability for Kevin? ...Leslie, Did you try and get disability for Kevin? My son is deaf and I can collect disabilty for him, even though I work...maybe something to look into. Also, because he is deaf, we have learned sign language. It's not as overwhelming as learning a whole new language because neither of you know it, SO... you would each learn at your own pace and start with the day to day things you would need to talk about. I still don't sign in sentences, but my son is 2, and doesn't talk in senteneces :-) It's challenging, but a lot of fun! If you want any infomation, I would be glad to help you in any way I can. <br /><br />As far as depression...hmmm...NO, I don't think you are depressed. You are in a tough spot right now with everything, it's ok to get down, just don't stay there. You are an amazing women and I love keeping up with you all. I am blessed by each one of you! thanks <br /><br />JessicaJessicahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14547012645677596510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-78905247111075500172009-05-08T04:42:00.000-05:002009-05-08T04:42:00.000-05:00It does not sound like you are depressed. It soun...It does not sound like you are depressed. It sounds like you are WEARY. You should be weary with all you have gone through and know you will continue to go through. Thank God I have not gone through what you have but have had slightly similar circumstances of taking care of a loved one under great physical, emotional and financial challenges. I like to think of a song that says something like- If you are going through hell, keep on going, don't look back, and if you fall, pick yourself up- but keep on going before the devil even knows you're there. Good luck! So many people are with you and Kevin in spirit.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-64872988470224655652009-05-08T02:37:00.000-05:002009-05-08T02:37:00.000-05:00girl!! you feel however the hell you want to!!!! ...girl!! you feel however the hell you want to!!!! this is your blog....just let it out!!! <br /><br />jen!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6815867650533403423.post-8744749411372267862009-05-08T00:40:00.000-05:002009-05-08T00:40:00.000-05:00You are going through a roller coaster of emotions...You are going through a roller coaster of emotions. I hate that you have to explain yourself every time you vent and express your negative emotions. You are human and you are going through SO much right now. Just let it all out.Kevin and Natali McKeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13584021603363855809noreply@blogger.com